I realized way before my husband and I got a positive line that once we had a child, traveling would be much more difficult and trips would be put on hold.
That reality hit pretty hard after our 12 week ultrasound when we got a Save the Date postcard from a childhood friend. She is getting married…<wait for it>…in GERMANY…6 weeks after the baby’s due date. UGGH. And this isn’t a wedding where they looked at an atlas and picked Germany on a whim. No-sir-ree. The groom is German and they are getting married in a picturesque Bavarian village with all its wonderful traditions.
Picture it…5am…the townspeople (yes they call themselves that) and the wedding guests go to the bride and grooms houses to wake them up. WITH A CANNON! They then proceed to go inside and enjoy brats and beer for breakfast. The festivities don’t stop until 12am!
Needless to say, with a newborn, we will have to sit this one out. But for a brief moment (ok it was a week), I contemplated the logistics.
A doctor should see your baby:
- Within the first month
- Two months old
- Four months old
- Six months old
- Nine or fifteen months old
- 12 months old
Vaccines are usually given:
|Age:||Your child should get these shots:|
|2 Months||DTaP – Diphtheria, Tetanus, and Pertussis (Whooping Cough)|
|Hib – Haemophilus influenzae type b (Hib Meningitis)|
|PCV – Pneumococcal disease|
|Polio – Inactivated polio virus vaccine|
|RV – Rotavirus|
|Hepatitis B – If 1st dose given at 2 months instead of birth|
|12 Months||Hepatitis A|
|MMR – Measles, Mumps, and Rubella|
|15 Months||DTaP – Can be given as early as 12 months.|
|18 Months||Hepatitis A|
Ultimately, the choice is up to you and the child’s pediatrician. Newborns are highly susceptible to infection and being on a crowded plane or abroad could increase their risks.
Every U.S. citizen traveling abroad needs a passport. Newborns – and their ever changing looks – are no exception. Applying for a newborn passport isn’t much different than applying for one as an adult. There are some things you need to know beforehand:
Order a copy of your baby’s birth certificate from your state’s vital records office, as you cannot use the commemorative certificate from the hospital. Make sure the birth certificate has both parents’ names on it. If your baby is a citizen but was not born on American soil, you should also provide appropriate documentation, such as a Consular Report of Birth Abroad. Only U.S. citizens are eligible for U.S. passports.
- Call ahead and make sure that the passport facility is taking applications before you go.
- If you need to leave the country within the next month, you can pay an extra fee to have your child’s passport processing expedited.
- You must be the child’s parent or legal guardian to get his or her passport.
- Passports for newborns aren’t valid for as long as passports for adults. You must get your child a new passport within five years.
Tips for the Flight
Book the best seat
When making reservations, request an aisle seat as close to the front of the plane as possible. Aisle seats give you better mobility in case you have to get up and walk around to soothe your baby, and quicker access to your seat when boarding and de-planing. Tell the agent that you are traveling with a newborn, and request that, if possible, the seat next to you be left empty. Unless the flight is sold out, airlines will usually accommodate this request. If you are unable to pre-book a desirable seat, upon check-in ask the agent at the gate if a more suitable seat is available. Some parents have told me they prefer seats in the back rows, especially during long flights, since they have easier access to the bathrooms in the rear of the plane. On a flight that’s only an hour and a half long, however, easy bathroom access need not be a major concern. And, in my experience as a frequent flier, I have found that the noise level is highest toward the rear of some planes, a concern for sensitive little ears.
Wear your baby
Get your child used to a sling-type baby carrier, the most versatile carrier for traveling with a tiny baby. Slings enable you to carry baby in a variety of comfortable positions and to nurse discreetly. Also, sling carriers allow newborns to be covered up, which discourages strangers from bending over and touching them. Just before you board the plane, put your baby in the carrier and pace a while to lull her to sleep. Newborns are often easier to travel with than older babies because they sleep a lot. Chances are your child will sleep through the entire flight.
Just before you board the plane, feed your baby and be sure to burp her well. In some aircraft, the lower atmospheric pressure at cruising altitudes can expand the air in the intestines. Eating and sucking can add more air to already bloated intestines, causing colicky, abdominal pain. If you do need to feed your baby during the flight, offer smaller, more frequent feedings, and burp well
Let sleeping babies lie
You may have heard that it’s best to awaken and feed your baby upon takeoff and landing in order to relax her ears. The theory behind this advice is that changes in cabin pressure can cause unequal pressure on the eardrum, producing pain. If your baby’s eustachian tubes are popped open, as they are during feeding or crying (or, in adults, yawning and chewing), the pressure will be equalized and the eardrums will relax. Also, there is a belief that eustachian tubes may not normally adjust to changing pressure during sleep. In reality, ear pain is seldom a problem upon takeoff, though it may be a problem upon landing. In any case, seasoned travelers with infants have found that it’s usually best to let a baby sleep during takeoff and landing rather than upsetting her by waking her.
“Hose the nose”
Tiny air passages and dry cabin air are not a comfortable mix. Take along some over-the-counter saltwater nasal spray for your baby. A couple times during the flight, gently spritz a spray into each nostril.
Have you traveled abroad with your newborn? Is so, how did it go?
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Very good advice here! Solid research. We started traveling when daughter (now a tween) was 4 months old. Its tiring, but worth it. It creates great family memories and helps kids become flexible in life.
You do NOT need to give up travel post-baby. But you do need to shift your expectations and travel rhythm. Family travel is all about sharing what you love in this world with your kids. You will see familiar places in a different way, theough their eyes. So go for it! In the early years, its all about logistics and gear but it gets easier. We promise. Let us know what you think.